Is your marriage ending?
No children or grown children?
Do you both work and are able to meet your expenses after divorce?
Do you have normal assets and liabilities?
Do you want to get divorced as easily and civilized as possible?
Then Consider divorce mediation.
Divorce mediation is a way (as opposed to litigation) to go through the issues of divorce including assets and liabilities accumulated during the marriage and how the two of you will meet your expenses after the marriage is over. The divorce mediation process enables the parties seeking the divorce to use a neutral third party while still being able to speak to outside attorneys if they choose.
By choosing divorce mediation as your process to divorce, you will be greatly reducing costs to the both of you and saving considerable time and stress.
Here are some considerations for you to think about: